Friday, October 17, 2025

Love, Honor — Obey?



I recently heard a term which was new to me: “Tradwife”. This stands for traditional wife and is a movement which, on the surface, sounds very Donna Reed-ish and perhaps rather appealing. It is not. I learned of the Tradwife movement through an interview with Tia Levings, who has written about her experiences. She is uniquely qualified for this because she was educated in an evangelical school, married an abusive man who believed these principles, escaped from that way of life, recovered, and is a fabulous writer who can tell us what is happening in far too many homes. Some people yearn for the simplicity of life in years past, but perhaps they are confused as to what made it lovely. Then again, was it? When I hear elected officials defending misogynistic, racist, homophobic views, I must stand up and “just say no”. We mustn’t go back to those times when women and people of color were treated as less than white men. And when some are telling us this is Christianity and we must “obey” the rules as they are interpreting them, it’s time to take a stand and raise our voices for all that is good and pure and true!

“The ego literally lives by comparisons. Equality is beyond its grasp, and charity becomes impossible. The ego never gives out of abundance, because it was made as a substitute for it. That is why the concept of ‘getting’ arose in the ego’s thought system. Appetites are ‘getting’ mechanisms, representing the ego’s need to confirm itself. This is as true of body appetites as it is of the so-called ‘higher ego needs.’ Body appetites are not physical in origin. The ego regards the body as its home, and tries to satisfy itself through the body. But the idea that this is possible is a decision of the mind, which has become completely confused about what is really possible.”
A Course in Miracles T-4.II.7:1-9

“Because Truth is infinite, error should be known as nothing. Because Truth is omnipotent in goodness, error, Truth’s opposite, has no might. Evil is but the counterpoise of nothingness. The greatest wrong is but a supposititious opposite of the highest right. The confidence inspired by Science lies in the fact that Truth is real and error is unreal. Error is a coward before Truth. Divine Science insists that time will prove all this. Both truth and error have come nearer than ever before to the apprehension of mortals, and truth will become still clearer as error is self-destroyed.”
Mary Baker Eddy - Science & Health Page 367:30-9

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