Decisions, Decisions …

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Many of us have difficulty making decisions. We make lists of pros and cons, look at the situation from all directions, think we have it figured out, and then something changes and we must start again. Usually I don’t worry about making choices, because I’ve learned that trusting intuition is the way to go. Rather than becoming anxious about what is the right thing to do and wondering if I’m going to make a mistake, I turn toward the choice which brings a peaceful smile. Sometimes we come up against a situation where nothing feels right. When this happens, I like to trust being kind rather than right. But what if neither course of action seems kind or right?? Perhaps I would go to Chapter 30 in A Course in Miracles text, the section on Rules for Decision: “Today I will make no decisions by myself. This means that you are choosing not to be the judge of what to do. But it must also mean you will not judge the situations where you will be called upon to make response. For if you judge them, you have set the rules for how you should react to them. And then another answer cannot but produce confusion and uncertainty and fear.”
A Course in Miracles T-30.I.2:2-6

“The science of music governs tones. If mortals caught harmony through material sense, they would lose harmony, if time or accident robbed them of material sense. To be master of chords and discords, the science of music must be understood. Left to the decisions of material sense, music is liable to be misapprehended and lost in confusion. Controlled by belief, instead of understanding, music is, must be, imperfectly expressed. So man, not understanding the Science of being, — thrusting aside his divine Principle as incomprehensible, — is abandoned to conjectures, left in the hands of ignorance, placed at the disposal of illusions, subjected to material sense which is discord. A discontented, discordant mortal is no more a man than discord is music.” 

Mary Baker Eddy - Science & Health Page 304:22-4