Adulting

At Crystal Bridges - PC: Aaron Springston

I recently heard a term which sent me directly to a search engine: Adulting. Its definition is: “the practice of behaving in a way characteristic of a responsible adult, especially the accomplishment of mundane but necessary tasks”. I have found it difficult to “adult” at times when I let myself become overwhelmed by too many tasks. If my mind is racing in circles with a multitude of duties whirling around, it’s easy to let it flit from one to another with no focus anywhere. At those times, it’s easy to think there is too much on my plate and I’d rather retreat into a good book. Through the years, I’ve learned that then is the time to sit quietly, listening for the rhythms of divine order to lead the way, and then to be present in the Now. Some people like to make lists and prioritize, others want someone to tell them what to do first, but few of us believe there is an omnipresence which can help us navigate life’s activities. It can be difficult to release our ego’s dictates, admitting that we may not know what is best, to release control and flow with the good which is unfolding right here and now. But I’m going to keep trying, because I’ve seen how much easier it is than thinking I know it all!

“The objects of time and sense disappear in the illumination of spiritual understanding, and Mind measures time according to the good that is unfolding.” Mary Baker Eddy, Science & Health Page 584

What's Love Got To Do With It?

Marianne Williamson is often asked what spirituality has to do with politics. She answers: "Spirituality is simply the path of the heart. And the problem with American politics today is how often our policies are heartless." Blake Lasater's sermon with the Methodists today had to do with the same thing. He spoke of how we are here to help each other, yet so often it's "me first" with individuals, churches, and other groups of people. He stated that his measure of whether a church is successful isn't how big their building is or how good their music programs are, but what they are doing for their community. When our government policies are heartless, it seems okay for individuals to be the same, for churches to say they must take care of themselves, for communities to build fences and declare themselves safe. It's way past time for us to look at what really matters. A wise man once said the measure of a country is in how it treats its animals. It's also in how it treats the hopeless, the homeless, the hungry, the children, its citizens. I will vote for candidates who care, not just about economic growth, but about human growth, about our planet, our rivers, our food supplies. Corporations are not people. They don't cry or care. Look your neighbor in the eye, listen to a friend in need, say a kind word to the serviceperson helping you, vote for a person who does the same. We can make a difference!

"My campaign is a clarion call to the American people. It is time for us to use our power, as other generations before us have used theirs, to put America back on track when we have socially, politically and morally gone astray.

Help me override the control of the political industrial complex, penetrate the field of resistance to fundamental change, and provide the American people with a genuine alternative to the corporate aristocracy.

Our hands are strong, our hearts are ready, and the time is now…

Let’s have love for our country, and the courage to serve her in this critical hour." Marianne Williamson

Confession Time

St Elizabeth's in Eureka Springs
photo credit: Richard Quick

Just when I think no matter what anyone says, I'm cool and won't react -- well, you know what happens when we're sure of something! I play keyboards for the Catholics on Saturday afternoon, and today while I was hanging out in their library a little old man told me the Democrats were trying to keep God out of everyone's lives, and he told me a few instances of how that was happening. I calmly said I didn't think that was so and asked him how he knew this. There were some other folks in the room, interjecting this and that, and then he said that Jim Baker had a lot of smart people on his show and that's how he knew that Christians were being discriminated against. At that point, I knew I should leave and got up to do so. But then he said, "Oh, yeah, she won't listen; she's narrow minded." At which point I turned around and pointed at him (I really dislike it when people do that to me!) and said, "I watch Fox news regularly so I can see what the lie of the day is!" Then I left, feeling horrid that I'd allowed my emotions to roil out all over him. I tell this story on myself as a kind of confession, although I'm not asking for absolution. I do feel we should speak out against lies and injustice, but with compassion. Perhaps I've failed, but I've forgiven myself, and the dear little man who is so sure Jim Baker knows what he's talking about. Whew!

"There are two diametrically opposed ways of seeing your brother. They must both be in your mind, because you are the perceiver. They must also be in his, because you are perceiving him. See him through the Holy Spirit in his mind, and you will recognize Him in yours. What you acknowledge in your brother you are acknowledging in yourself, and what you share you strengthen." A Course in Miracles T-5.III.3

Expectations

photo credit: Steve Shogren

Expect the best of people and that's what you'll get. I've always felt this to be true, and I've never been disappointed. Perhaps that's because I've realized everyone is doing the best they can, even if it doesn't seem very good -- ha! A friend said yesterday that she had, once again, been disappointed when someone didn't keep their word to her. She stated that it "always happened to her". That's what got me to thinking about her expectations and mine. I'm reminded of the old story of a woman out for a walk and meeting someone who had just moved to town. She was asked what the people were like here. She turned the question around and asked what the people were like where the newly-arrived woman was from. She responded that they were wonderful. "Well, that's what they're like here, too!" Another day the same situation happened with someone else, but when she asked what people were like where the man came from, the response was that they were rude and mean. "Well, that's what you'll find here, too." Perceptions are everything, don't you think? I can look at a situation and see joy, but someone else may find problems and sadness. Perhaps it goes back to my favorite one of Ruiz's Four Agreements: Don't take anything personally! 

"Sit quietly and look upon the world you see, and tell yourself: 'The real world is not like this.'" A Course in Miracles T-13.VII1

The Biggest Little Farm

Laundry Spring in Eureka Springs

Two things happened today which dovetailed perfectly with each other. First thing this morning, I went with Kevin to meet with his Master Gardener sponsor to get information on volunteering to work on projects in our area. It was wonderful to hear her vision for the naturalists and gardeners in our town! At the end of this day, we watched a fine documentary called “The Biggest Little Farm”. This hope-filled film takes us through ten years in the life of a couple who set out to create a sustainable farm in California. Amidst factory farms and devastation from fertilizers and herbicides, they bring the soil back to life and create a beautiful world they call Apricot Lane Farms. The joy shines through, showing us how a true living ecosystem can and does occur. I watch Kevin glow from the joy of clearing invasive plants from a spring in our sweet town, and I laugh and cry with a young, dedicated family in Moorpark, California, all of them demonstrating that it is, indeed, possible to help our earth function reciprocally, as is its purpose. Life is Good! 

"Nature voices natural, spiritual law and divine Love, but human belief misinterprets nature. Arctic regions, sunny tropics, giant hills, winged winds, mighty billows, verdant vales, festive flowers, and glorious heavens -- all point to Mind, the spiritual intelligence they reflect. The floral apostles are hieroglyphs of Deity. Suns and planets teach grand lessons. The stars make night beautiful and the leaflet turns naturally towards the light." Mary Baker Eddy, Science & Health Page 240

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"Change will not come if we wait for some other person or some other time. We are the ones we've been waiting for. We are the change that we seek." Barack Obama

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Truth Unfolding

photo credit: Gerry Toler

The upheaval in our world surrounding our highest elected official is wreaking havoc with my emotional state today. I made cornbread for dinner and it was a bit gummy. I started to cry. In opening up a favorite book, I came across this statement. I think I’ll simply ponder it this evening. Hugs to all!

“What Truth is comes to view individually as intuition, inspiration. Truth is forever unfolding as individual self-conscious being, and our opinions (abstractions) are constantly becoming obsolete. Truth cannot be locked up in a strong-box; it is Infinity. When confined, Truth ceases to be Truth, and becomes an abstraction. Truth defines itself operationally by disposing of beliefs and theories. It is a way of life and cannot be argued about." "The man of today is intelligence; he is pure Mind” We Are the World We Walk Through” by Margaret Laird C.S.B

What Sparks Joy?

photo credit: Richard Quick

I’ve always had a difficult time keeping things tidy. Reading the book, The Life-Changing Manga (Magic) of Tidying Up, written by Marie Kondo, has helped me understand why. She suggests putting all your clothing in the middle of the room, then going through them, keeping only the things which bring you joy. Well, that concept is life-changing for sure! Keep what brings you joy — wow! I’m now listening to her follow-up book, Spark Joy, where she tells how some people throw away their vacuum cleaners because they don’t bring joy, only to find out they miss them terribly. So she asks us to express appreciation for those items — for instance, thank the iron for helping your clothing to be all that they can be. Another interesting aspect is that some people don’t know what sparks joy, and she must teach them what it means. This opened my eyes to a whole aspect of my fellow beings which I had not considered. How could anyone not know the feeling of joy? Is joy a learned behavior? Are we afraid to feel joy? When she teaches them what joy is, does she simple give them permission to feel what was already there? I’m loving this book! (As always, please feel free to tell me your thoughts) 

"Unity of spirit gives new pinions to joy, or else joy's drooping wings trail in dust." Mary Baker Eddy, Science & Health Page 58