Listening, communicating, finding common ground — these elements can bind together a divided country, bringing peace to warring people. In pondering how to communicate with those who have varying degrees of strong opinions, there are options. When having a discussion and someone makes a statement diametrically opposed to our way of thinking, we can calmly ask them, “Why do you think [such-and-such]?” But if we say, “why do you people think [such-and-such]?”, the whole conversations shifts into an attack situation. Daryl Davis is a black blues musician who reaches out to befriend members of hate groups, such as the Ku Klux Klan. He refers to “thoughtful discussions that change hearts”, saying “If you spend five minutes with your worst enemy, you will find that you both have something in common.” By reaching a higher spiritual understanding of those involved, we may find that these “others” are striving for greater dignity; perhaps we’ll even see that we care for all people. By our connection with divine Love, we are all connected to each other. Through this union of Spirit, we can find our common ground and move forward with respect for one another. I can’t think of a better time to practice this discipline than right now!
“Love giveth to the least spiritual idea might, immortality, and goodness, which shine through all as the blossom shines through the bud.” Mary Baker Eddy - Science & Health Page 518
“The escape from darkness involves two stages: First, the recognition that darkness cannot hide. This step usually entails fear. Second, the recognition that there is nothing you want to hide even if you could. This step brings escape from fear. When you have become willing to hide nothing, you will not only be willing to enter into communion but will also understand peace and joy.” A Course in Miracles T-1.IV.1:1-5
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